I really struggled in school, I’m a dyslexic artist and musician who is terrible with math. Now, I wasn’t great in school but was really good at faking it. I would pretend to read books, I can recall “reading” the Animorph books in elementary school but really I would just flip through the corner images. If you have read the series you know what I’m talking about. No one (including me) even knew I was dyslexic until 10th grade! I felt dumb. I lacked confidence in myself in all areas except one. Music. I would spend 5-6 hours a night practicing my clarinet or piano. My mom actually started to pay me to STOP practicing. I rarely did my homework because all my time was spent doing what I loved. It was the one area that I excelled in. I was first chair, got scholarships, won awards, and played all over the states. I think that I excelled for three reasons. Firstly, I was interested in music. Secondly, the information was given to me in away that just clicked and made innate sense. Finally, it was because I was going at MY pace and not being pushed or held back by others.
Isn’t it crazy that my 20+ years in music can be shrunk into 12 images?
Flash forward to my own children, I never planned on homeschooling and it didn’t even occur to me. That was until our first child was preschool age. The thought of sending him to preschool to learn his letters when he already knew them and was starting to read didn’t sit well in my heart. You can read more about how and why we starting homeschooling here.
So my first son, completely the opposite of me, started reading at two and was reading at a first-grade level at age three. He consumes books so fast I can’t keep up. You can learn how we taught him to read here. He also is very inclined to learn things math related. He learned the 100’s place values and addition also at age three. I can tell from teaching him that he learns very differently than I did. I never push him, but I also never hold him back if he is interested. I let him explore. Currently, he wants to know everything there is to know about the piano, and I happily teach him. If you are interested in how I teach music you can sign up for my FREE music education e-course.
It wasn’t until I was an adult that I realized I’m not really dumb or stupid. I just learn differently and have different talents. Everyone is unique and homeschooling allows us to educate our children at a pace that works for them. Some subjects we can fly through and others we can slow way down.
Your children are so blessed to have you facilitating their education.. Hearing how you are finding the right pace for both you and your children are such an important part of homeschooling. Thank you for sharing your experiences, Amanda.
I love your empathy for your son & how you are working to overcome your past struggles for the benefit of your family. Looking forward to taking your music ecourse?
I love that you found your passion! So many kids, especially those who struggle in school don’t find something to grasp on and they really do slip though the cracks. Music was your glue! And look at what music has done for you now! I have always been a music fan, I appreciate it on so many levels, but I have never learned to play an instrument, music isn’t taught in my language :p or that’s the way it feels.
Thank you for sharing your struggles!
This is definitely a reason I am choosing to homeschool as well! I always finished my work quickly in school and then would get in trouble for being a chatter (because I was bored then). Loved this post!
Glad you like it Melissa! Every child is so unique!
Reflection! That’s the best gift we, as parents, teachers and homeschoolers, could be given…we just have to remember to use it. Each child is unique. Our children are different than us and our husbands. And we have to embrace that – your blog post helps bring that ALL back to the table allowing us to reflect and remember! Thanks for sharing your heart!
I too, have a tortoise and a hare and I shudder at the thought of what their life would be like in the school system; One of them held back, the other one barely hanging on. So thankful to have them home, moving at their own pace. Loved all the pictures. Thanks for sharing your reason with us.
Exactly Forest. I failed several classes in school and learned at a young age that no matter how hard I tried I just couldn’t keep up so I gave up. Now watching my son, he would be so board in school and most likely start to hate it as much as I did for a very different reason!
I do too Forest! That’s why I’m trying to do some subjects one-on-one with each so I can work on their own pace.